I don't know what I would do in that situation. I trust her to make that decision for me, and she trusts me to make it for her. It is not the government's decision to make. What God joins together, let no man separate.
"we trust each other"
How incredibly naive.
You are a fool.
You continue to ignore the fact that SOME HUSBANDS ABUSE THEIR WIVES whether you like to admit it or not.
And NO WAY should they determine their wife's undeclared "wishes" simply because of the "covenant of marriage" as you like to say.
You assume an awful lot in this situation.