Ummm...in your scenario she died before you met someone else. That has nothing to do with what I just said. What I said was that he had already broken his vows by shacking up with someone else and having children with that woman BEFORE TERRI DIED, therefore he forfeits any rights to make decisions based on the vows he took with Terri. If he had not broken the vows to Terri by committing adultery in the first place, we probably wouldn't even be having this discussion.
Exactly. But what if I wasn't allowed to honor my wife's wish and have the feeding tube removed? Suppose her family objected and was able to keep her alive?