"You might recall the news reports of the man in a coma for 10+ years. He woke up to teenagers and a wife WHO DID NOT LEAVE HIM!!!!"
Michael didn't leave Terri either. He remained married to her, in spite of so many of your side who say he should have divorced her. And you have no idea if the wife of the man in a coma in your example remained celibate of not for those 10 years. Terri's dead, dead, dead, dead. Let it go.
You really have a thing for sex don't you??
It really isn't the most important thing to many.