O.K., trying VERY HARD to keep this appropriate for a family forum..
Alright, let's try this. To summarize your post: you have "no problem with homosexuality", with the unspeakable and unhealthy "ding a ling" activities that entails; you "disagree" with the demand by those whose entire lives center on such "ding a ling" activities to be "married", but you "understand"; but "count you out" when they take the next logical step and go surgical? I can't understand the logic of being perfectly accepting of self-abuse and self-abasement, but drawing the line at self-mutilation. It's all part of the same sickness. It's just too bad that the sick scum involved here had to drag children into the mix.