I understand where you are coming from. We faced some of the same issues with my mother's last illness. And of course, there is a substantial moral difference between actions taken at the end of one's natural life and what they did to an otherwise healthy Terri Schiavo. But, as you know, when a loved one is dying, the last thing you need is a screaming debate going on in the room when your focus is on making the most out of your last precious moments. If Lucianne need a little peace and quiet, who among us should say her nay?
Screaming debate? In the room? Nuh uh. Doesn't wash.