I understand what you are saying, but as a mother I will teach my son that NO means NO, don't second guess because it can get you in lots of trouble!!!
Better to walk away and suffer a prolonged HO until a cold shower is available than to face prison time for rape and/or murder.
The ones who killed her need to be eradicated from existence!!
I have two boys. They have had it well pounded into them that they don't even go into situations where a dishonest statement can possibly get them in trouble. For instance, my son never gives a girl a ride home in a car if he is alone. He does not go anywhere private with a girl. If the guys he is with are getting rowdy, he goes home.
Teach them proverbs out of the bible. They are lifesavers.
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave.
6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
her paths are crooked, but she knows it not.
7 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
do not turn aside from what I say.
8 Keep to a path far from her,
do not go near the door of her house,
9 lest you give your best strength to others
and your years to one who is cruel,
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
and your toil enrich another man's house.
11 At the end of your life you will groan,
when your flesh and body are spent.
12 You will say, "How I hated discipline!
How my heart spurned correction!
13 I would not obey my teachers
or listen to my instructors.
14 I have come to the brink of utter ruin
in the midst of the whole assembly."
15 Drink water from your own cistern,
running water from your own well.