No, we're not fighting gentlemen, but we should always behave by gentlemen, thats part of what being superior is.
When I go to a resturaunt, and some trashy server gets smart with me, I don't argue with them, I don't complain (even though I have every right too) because I understand that they can't help the way they are. I was raised better, I accept it, and I give them a tip anyway, with the hope that one day, they might try and improve themselves, and maybe when that day comes, they remember the example I set.