Here's a story you might like. A number of years ago (about 22) my brother-in-law came to me and said that his partner was preganant and they were considering an abortion. He knew I was a Christian and he asked me what I thought about it. I said to him that it really did not matter much what I thought rather what God thought about it (this is what he was really asking for anyway I believe). So I told him God says that it is murder to kill another human being. some 7 months later they had a little girl. They called here Mel after me. She is now 21 and absolutely beautiful. Makes me choke up everytime I think about it.
Any way we need to be honest - we don't have to be mean just tell the truth.
God Bless
Mel
That's a wonderful story.