Without seeing any signs of abuse, just knowing that somebody has taken care of their Father for 20 years is enough to accuse them of abuse? What has this world come to. Let me tell you, most people who take care of their parents in their own home do it out of an overwhelming sense of love. Maybe that money allows the woman to stay home with the family and take care of her Father too. So what? Would people here rather the man's money go to some "facility" than his own family? I don't get it.