It's a cruel and unfair question. Like, "how often do you beat your wife." There's no evidence...nothing. Just because she thinks that if there's money to be made, he should make it, doesn't mean she's an abuser. It means she's a capitalist. Something I'm sure you all know a thing or two about.
But that isn't what she said; she said she wanted the money not to take care of her father, but to pay off college loans SHE is responsible for.