I also agree that sometimes divorce is BEST for the child. But in divorce, both parents have to put aside their feelings and do what's best for the child. Just be honest and not use the child as a pawn. If there are legitamite accusations and concerns fine, but revenge for hurt feelings are unhealthy for the child, AND for the devorced parent(s)
I sure you know what I mean without me having to go into detail.
I sure do....and said well...:)