No, I don't believe for a minute that she wanted that video on the internet. She may be "an attention whore", but I don't believe that she wanted her sexual activities on display for any and everyone to see.
I don't see how her being in the video, means that she wanted the video to be on the internet.
The old adage that I learned (from my Southern Belle Primer ;) ) is never let anything be recorded that you wouldn't want the whole wide world to see. Because the world will see it, it's just a matter of time.
That and don't go to orgies cuz there's too many Thank You notes to write.