You are right. The list does go out the window when you are married.
She always jokes about the women who come up to her in the bathrooms and ask her if her boobs are real, or "who did your boobs." She knows I like dark hair, but she has a lot of confidence in herself so that does not bother her. She even bought a dark haired wig and surprised me one day, just as a joke. She is part Latina, part Italian, and 100% foxy.