Feminists would outlaw beauty pageants not because of prudishness, but because in their eyes it is the continuation of women's objectification at the hands of slobbering males who only see value in their sexuality.
Clearly our views are different on this, and I don't want to argue over it. IMO we're just sharing opinions =)
Engaging in polemics isn't the sharing of anything--it is argumentation. It is what a good conversation is about. There is no need for the obsequious smiley.