I hope you don't confuse my view on porn with my view on freedom and not engaging in the same type of psychology that goes through a typical liberals mind on issues.
Discipline requires on to take a step back and look at many sides to an issue before simply taking a position. Philosophy also is a big part. My philosophy is that of a classical liberal. It generally governs my beliefs until proven wrong.
I think I get where you're coming from. BTW, tell your lady to read Dr. Laura's Care and Feeding of Husbands. Well...maybe she may not like it you telling her that *lol* but you know what I mean.