Welll how about that!! An honest man! Sounds like you had other problems that needed being dealt with, just like I said. Too bad you didn't care enough about the wife to actually try to treat the problem. Or did you eventually?Sounds like, instead, you then went to the porn rooms to look at the saddest women of all. Those who spread 'em for a buck.
I tried for quite some while, but it never worked. She was intractably codependent and insecure, and therefore possessive; nothing I tried could even get her to acknowledge there was a problem with that, much less do something about it. And, it seemed to get worse, not better, over time, which surprised me. The attitude boiled down to: 'if you love someone, how could you possibly not want to spend every moment of every day with them, and why would you need to spend any time to yourself or with friends?' It wasn't that blatant, but that was what it boiled down to. Eventually I didn't see why I needed to deal with the passive aggression and the fifty questions anymore.
The sex was good though..
Or did you eventually?
Well, note that we are blissfully divorced.. ;)
Sounds like, instead, you then went to the porn rooms to look at the saddest women of all.
Umm, no. Actually I didn't. My reaction was mainly to start working 80-90 hour weeks........