So...............are you guys married?
The reason I ask is because if your wife knows about your love of porn, and doesn't mind, then she's the exception to the rule. Perhaps it's used as a tool in the bedroom. I'm cool with that. :-)
If she doesn't then I would guess it's because you know she probably would consider your "dabbling" and "dribbling" as a form of infidelity. I know I would. Now, if you couldn't care less why women would think that, then perhaps you also live by the reasoning that "what she doesn't know won't hurt her?"
Just by some of your opinions here, that she must be at fault for your horniness which is why you allow yourself this type of entertainment, I see why so many relationships break up. If she's "not putting out", which justifies your scanning the porn sites for "relief," then something else is wrong in your relationship. HMMMM........maybe not hard to figure that one out.
It is discouraging that so many men consider it OK to slobber over strange women's genitalia while they work their own into submission. Sad really........and shows a complete disregard for women in general, except to oggle their privates for your own entertainment and because "it's there for the looking." A fella I was dating, and whom I trusted, was not only checking out the "boobies" (an immature term for breasts) but was also trying to connect with other women in chat rooms. He was "getting it" plenty at home by the way. I dumped him quickly.
A gentleman that I fell in love with a few years later understood the importance of treating a woman with respect which in turns breed respect. For society to have come to a place where sex and all its other activities are no longer a private matter, but for everyone to slurp up, shows the overwhelming proliferation of deviancy. To find it so normal to have so many women to look at, at any given time, is not normal. It's just another example of a society that has lost its meaning of decorum, manners, and a healthy respect for a wonderful act.
You're turn.......and don't bother calling me a prude. I have a very imaginative sexual nature. Just picky about whom I share it with.
Couldn't have put it better myself, sister!
I'm divorced. When I was married, I had almost zero interest in pornography. That wasn't because I had a problem with the idea, I just don't have that much interest when my sex life is satisfactory. Now, ironically enough, my second wife toward the end actually suggested a few times that we watch porn together, because she thought the problem was that I was unsatisfied. The problem was not that I was unsatisfied in that regard, but that she was obsessively possessive and did not ever want me out of her sight.
Name it for me: drinking, porn, smoking, drugs, work, shopping, gambling, AND (drum roll please...) masturbating at porno........