You abviously hadn't read my posts on what I believe. I am not setting myself up a a paragon of virtue, nor have I eluded to that "holier than thou" attitude. I am so far from that. However from lifes experiences and personal contacts, I can pretty sure bet that I am correct and that in the future you will remember this thread. If you valued your wife as a golden treasure, and I am sure you do...You wouldn't need porn in your relationship.
We don't need it, we sometimes enjoy it. What it wrong with that if it is mutual?