"And YES, it is just good manners to ping the person you are gossiping about."
Baloney. NoPardons dishes it out constantly. If she can't take the heat she should get out of the fire, as should you. Good manners? You aren't the arbitor of good manners and what they should be. Take a hike.
Nopardons dishes it out and some can't take it because they can't out debate her. Too freakin' bad.
And that has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with whether I "dish it out" or not. And unlike you, I can also "take it"; which you are incapable of doing.