No kidding. That drives me completely nuts.
Actually, it infuriates me. It belittles what it is, which is sexual abuse.
This bias is everywhere. Just recently there was an article in the Connecticut Post about an adult woman who molested an 8 year old boy with a headline that called it an "affair."
I know what you mean. On one thread, a poster said that a teacher who had molested a 12-year-old boy did it because her husband "wasn't man enough for her."
Sick.