Exactly.
I hate it when a bumbling man expects me to say with complete sincerity, "It's okay that you weren't considerate and did not do what you said you would. I was counting on you and that was my mistake, because I deserve to be treated like sh!t." Sarcasm happens, and it's b!tchy.
Btw, I'm not in the camp that thinks these two should get divorced because they obviously hate each other. In fact, it's obvious that the two love each other, and not just in a sexual way (although that's what you seem to see the most of, or at least, what gets implied or talked about more.)
TS