Only the self-righteous "pro-lifers" have a lock on what should be done in other people's families.
You mean "to other people" not "in other people's families".
No. People come out of families, the basic unit of human society. After the family comes the church and government.
There are plenty of people with me (including the founding fathers) that do not want the government or a religious organization telling us what we MUST do.