As your brother slowly bled out through his pores over those two years would you have wanted him starved and dehydrated to death in order to reduce his suffering?
Is this the gist of your post and of your "philosophy"- that because people suffer as they die they should die sooner?
Do you wish your brother had died sooner in order to reduce his suffering or your suffering?
Oh, and you were righteously busted by bykrbayb. You lied in post #22 and your lie was exposed, with links, in post #44.
Now that we know you are willing to lie to make a point it follows that the pity me story you created about your brother can't be believed either.
Perhaps you are just in denial and not just a liar. Either or, both traits, denial and lying, are neccesary in order to ridicule what was done to a helpless person.
Ridicule this- she was just as helpless as Terri Schindler was. 
A butcher sliced off this little girl's shoulder in a botched abortion. Go ahead, make fun of those who think what was done to her is wrong also.
AV