"If the 'rebuke' is correct, it's rebuke. If it's not correct, it's only accusations from the Enemy."
I'm surprised you would think that a "rebuke" from a GODLY person would be similar to an "accusation from" the accuser of the bretheran.
I guess it would be important to be sure people know the difference between the two. If we don't - then we'll be allowing ourselves to be offended in both cases - and nothing is accomplished by that.
Ever read Job?