Nasonex is the nasal spray they gave me
Chloripheniramine Maleate it works for me. Ask at the pharmacy. Get it without the Sudafed in it. It doesn't sedate as bad as Benadryl but it will slow you down some. Much preferable to being totally miserable.
I reread your original post about the eyes. For the Short TERM and I mean two or three days you might try using Opcon-A eye drops at night before you sleep. Make sure they have the "A" which stands for antihistamine. THESE THINGS ARE LIKE AFRIN NASAL SPRAY- IF YOU USE THEM FOR A WEEK OR SO YOUR EYES WILL BE RED WHEN YOU DON'T USE THEM! Use them SHORT term - 2-3 days