Awwwwwwwww........come on. Leave 'em alone. *sniff* The poor guy ALREADY sleeps in the dog house and he's gotta have all of us over for a whole weekend, and he's gotta go out and buy all that beer, and charcoal and stuff...
If you insist, MM, I, Generous Brad's Gramma, will bring a can of baked beans to help defray the costs.