"So nice of you to be neutral. "
So nice of you to ignore history. Your fantasies of what you prefer to think happened are just that. I don't care what Muslims or Christians think when the answer to this can be found in history books. And it's not kind to either side.
Vile things were done by both sides during the Crusades. Christianity has gone through many changes (reformation etc) since then while Islam hasn't progressed out of the 9th century.
Smarten up. You live in the Christian West. You live under the shield of Christian civilization. Islam is to blame for conquering Christian and Jewish lands and communities. The Crusades were a belated response to this Islamic aggression. Also to ensure safe passage of Christian pilgrims to the Holy Land. You are probably an atheist anyhow.