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Student Suspended for Call to Mom in Iraq
Newsday ^ | 05/06/05 | AP

Posted on 05/06/2005 10:15:07 AM PDT by Responsibility1st

COLUMBUS, Ga. -- A high school student was suspended for 10 days for refusing to end a mobile phone call with his mother, a soldier serving in Iraq, school officials said. The 10-day suspension was issued because Kevin Francois was "defiant and disorderly" and was imposed in lieu of an arrest, Spencer High School assistant principal Alfred Parham said. The confrontation Wednesday began after the 17-year-old junior got a call at lunchtime from his mother, Sgt. 1st Class Monique Bates, who left in January for a one-year tour with the 203rd Forward Support Battalion. Mobile phones are allowed on campus but may not be used during school hours. When a teacher told him to hang up, he refused. He said he told the teacher, "This is my mom in Iraq. I'm not about to hang up on my mom." Parham said the teen's suspension was based on his reaction to the teacher's request. He said the teen used profanity when taken to the office. "Kevin got defiant and disorderly," Parham said. "When a kid becomes out of control like that they can either be arrested or suspended for 10 days. Now being that his mother is in Iraq, we're not trying to cause her any undue hardship; he was suspended for 10 days."

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: anamericansoldier; discipline; education; educationnews; iraq; militaryfamilies; militarymothers; militarywomen; students; terrorwar; waronterror; wtcattacks; zerotolarence
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To: Mr Ramsbotham
Kids who aren't imbued with the quality of respect generally turn into foul-mouthed, pie-throwing leftists.

And kids that blindly follow authority turn into lemmings.

Respect has to be earned. GOOD authority figures EARN respect, not simply demand it because they are a mid-level bureaucrat with a title.

181 posted on 05/06/2005 12:34:22 PM PDT by Dan from Michigan ("Get in the ring!")
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To: Hunble
This kid needs to be drafted so that he can develop a respect for authority.
182 posted on 05/06/2005 12:34:33 PM PDT by beeler ("When you’re running down my country, Hoss you’re walking on the fighting side of me.")
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To: juggernaut

There is no way to someone "nicely" to end their call to their mother in a warzone, short of it being an absolute emergency.


183 posted on 05/06/2005 12:35:00 PM PDT by chudogg (www.chudogg.blogspot.com)
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To: Bella_Bru
Statement from School district:

MUSCOGEE COUNTY SCHOOL DISTRICT

COLUMBUS, GEORGIA

MEDIA RELEASE

MEDIA RELEASE FROM DR. JOHN A. PHILLIPS, JR..

SUPERINTENDENT

MUSCOGEE COUNTY SCHOOL DISTRICT

The Muscogee County School District has over 3700 military students enrolled. We have a long and strong relationship with Ft. Benning. Spencer High School has the greatest number of military students of any of our schools. All of our counselors have received training in supporting students whose parents have been deployed, and military personnel serve as Partners in Education in over half of our schools.

When the Spencer teacher approached the young man about using a cell phone on campus, contrary to Board of Education policy which is designed to preserve instructional time and decorum in our schools, the young man did not tell the teacher he was speaking to his mother in Iraq. He indicated he would not comply with a request to turn over his cell phone and used profanity. The teacher escorted the young man to the office, where assistant principals tried to get him to calm himself and to cease the use of profanity. It was only at this point that administrators learned he was talking to his mother in Iraq.

The Guidance Department at Spencer High School has arranged for a number of students to receive calls from parents who are deployed. They would have been happy to do this for this young man. The issue here was not so much the use of the cell phone as it was the choices the young man made in handling the situation. We are empathetic to all students whose parents serve in the armed forces; we do have behavior standards which we uphold.

The school has been in touch with personnel from Ft. Benning. We are endeavoring to have the young man readmitted after a three day suspension, which was the first option for him. It was only after greater defiance and profanity that the suspension was extended. We will ask that the student and his guardian sign a behavior contract indicating that he will comply with the same standards of behavior which apply to all of our students. We will continue to be sensitive to the needs of students whose parents serve our country.

06 May 2005

Contact: Dr. Billy Kendall – (706) 649-0514 – bkendall@mcsdga.net

184 posted on 05/06/2005 12:35:32 PM PDT by joebellis
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To: Hunble
A 17 year old can still be spanked. And if you do it in public, in front of his friends, he will learn a lesson that lasts a life time.

Yeah. And he'll likely beat the hell out of you the first chance he gets.

And, you'll have deserved it.

185 posted on 05/06/2005 12:35:34 PM PDT by sinkspur (If you want unconditional love with skin, and hair and a warm nose, get a shelter dog.)
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To: BlueNgold; Nov3
The principal offered to allow mom to call the school directly and get the kid out of class if needed

Yes, after the negative publicity.

If you want your kids swearing at principals and acting out - that's your deal.

The kid already admitted he was partially at fault. I doubt he will be 'swearing at principals' again.

The school staff, on the other hand, has not admitted to its fault yet. Nevertheless, if the local media keeps the pressure, the teacher and the principal will come around and admit that they also over-reacted.

186 posted on 05/06/2005 12:36:20 PM PDT by george wythe
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To: fabriclady
I am angry now...so I have to be careful what I say. I am 70 years old and my anger usually is in control, but this was too much for this southern woman.

My father-in-law entered Europe just after D-Day. You are old enough to understand how important this is.

If he had been able to telephone his family from France during WWII, and some idiot teacher...

Let me know where I can donate my money to help this family.

187 posted on 05/06/2005 12:36:52 PM PDT by Hunble
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To: joebellis
We are endeavoring to have the young man readmitted after a three day suspension, which was the first option for him

They're catchin' holy hell!!!

188 posted on 05/06/2005 12:39:02 PM PDT by sinkspur (If you want unconditional love with skin, and hair and a warm nose, get a shelter dog.)
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To: joebellis
The school side of the story differs from the articles previously posted.

We are endeavoring to have the young man readmitted after a three day suspension

That's good news. A 10-day suspension would have been too detrimental to his grades.

189 posted on 05/06/2005 12:40:03 PM PDT by george wythe
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To: Responsibility1st
I haven't read all 179 posts yet. But has anyone asked what kind of "mother" would leave her child parentless to go to war?

This poor kid has bigger problems than his mean teacher.

190 posted on 05/06/2005 12:40:34 PM PDT by PackardClipper
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To: Hildy

Absolutely right!!!!! The school showed no compassion, common sense, or decency. Total idiots.


191 posted on 05/06/2005 12:41:11 PM PDT by hershey
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To: joebellis
Dear Dr. Billy Kendall :

Now that you have your sorry a** sufficiently covered.....I issue a collective "bite me". Your response to this was so off the mark. Since when do parents need to call their kids AFTER SETTING UP AN APPOINTMENT the the school administration? Be prepared, I have a feeling this is nowhere near over (which I know you're so hoping!)

192 posted on 05/06/2005 12:41:28 PM PDT by blu (The Pope, the Gipper and the Iron Lady...now THAT'S a trifecta!)
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To: PackardClipper

The mother of a very proud child I am sure!!!


193 posted on 05/06/2005 12:42:00 PM PDT by Sterco
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To: LYSandra
Good afternoon.
"Given the climate in public schools anti Bush anti war etc...'

I think you can count on that being a factor in this.

Michael Frazier
194 posted on 05/06/2005 12:42:48 PM PDT by brazzaville (No surrender,no retreat. Well, maybe retreat's ok)
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To: joebellis
Thanks for posting the school's reply.

We will ask that the student and his guardian sign a behavior contract indicating that he will comply with the same standards of behavior which apply to all of our students. We will continue to be sensitive to the needs of students whose parents serve our country.

Can you guess what I would do, when requested to sign a contract like this?

I think the first letters would be Y and F...

195 posted on 05/06/2005 12:43:23 PM PDT by Hunble
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To: beeler

Well, if you don't care for your son enough that only having one phone call a month hurts you to the innermost being, then I guess you would have reacted like that.

You would be a horrible parent, and I hope you aren't one. I feel for your kid if you are.


196 posted on 05/06/2005 12:43:52 PM PDT by rwfromkansas (http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=rwfromkansas)
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To: fabriclady
Thank you for your kind gesture. This kid will definitely appreciate a calling card.

Btw, notice that the school is already backing down. A 3-day suspension is being offered, instead of the original punishment lasting 10 days.

A shorter suspension will allow this young man to take tests and quizzes necessary to keep his grades up.

197 posted on 05/06/2005 12:44:24 PM PDT by george wythe
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To: Responsibility1st
The headline is wrong.

You are correct about the headline. You are wrong with your rant. The kid got a call from his mom. His school is assinine, like you!

198 posted on 05/06/2005 12:44:35 PM PDT by pageonetoo (You'll spot their posts soon enough!)
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To: beeler
When a teacher told him to hang up, he refused.

That's all I need to know.

You obviously don't know anymore than you need to.

199 posted on 05/06/2005 12:45:50 PM PDT by Navy Patriot
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To: beeler
He was told to do something and he didn't do it, period

It was an order that was unworthy of being followed.

It's time they quit letting the inmates run the asylum.

We can start with the inmates in mid-level bureaucratic positions of authority.

200 posted on 05/06/2005 12:45:56 PM PDT by Dan from Michigan ("Get in the ring!")
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