You're bemoaning the lack of civility on this forum. I am saying that a good way to improve it is to prod those on your side to be more civil. Folks during a debate are more likely to heed calls for civility from their own side. That's why more people need to step up and demand a better tone - from those they agree with. The mods and JimRob can only do so much, as they have said time and time again.
(Mind if I ask how old you are.....just for future reference?)
Old as dirt.
Then obey your own advice, and leave it there.