If it would've happened naturally, we would have had to find a way to deal with it. But we both felt that since it was started by artificial means, we then had control and the choice.
We fought with it, but in the end we realized that we wanted another child and if there were more than two then we would remove the rest.
It's not that we didn't want them, it was that we did/do not have the means right now to properly provide for that many children.
That's chilling. That's all I'm gonna say. That and be thankful that you did not have to follow through on your contingency plans. Though you have still basically committed the act in your hearts.
SD