[Labyrinthos]

I'd bet if this were ture one of her close friends would be aware of it in some fashion.

Perhaps. When my ex-wife was "doing" half the men and women at the health club (OK, maybe not half, but it seemed that way), everyone in town knew it except for me.

[1Old Pro]

When my ex-wife was "doing" half the men and women at the health club

You're lucky she's an "ex". Sheesh, consider yourself lucky to be sans that.