Of course they're free to donate or not donate...as they choose. Others are also free to question them. As for me, I just sent a donation to the organization they shunned. I'm free to do that. I'm also free to criticize this church for its attitudes.
You're free to ignore my criticism.
What attitude? Say the church donates the same amount of money through another ministry that meets its Biblical standards (which it probably did). You claim WWJD and condemn the church. However the New Testament (II Corinthians 6:14) also teaches us that we should not yoke ourselves unevenly (meaning with unbelievers). If the money goes to the same purpose but through another avenue, the church's attitude is not only correct but Biblical
Great! Isn't it amazing how God gets even atheists into the act. A contribution all of the way from Minnesota down to North Carolina.