Not a theologian.
But here's my answer: I believe that Mary was the first Christian--I believe she is living today with God. I believe she is a friend to all Christians--I ask her to pray for me, as I would ask any Christian friend to pray for me.
I have other beliefs about Mary, the Mother of God, but this is it in a nutshell.
Thanks for your answer I know you put yourself up for "flaming" by answering and I appreciate it.