The attitude of some of the men on this thread really surprises me. I hate that phrase "she was asking for it". No woman ever asks to be raped!
"The attitude of some of the men on this thread really surprises me."
Not me. IMO it stems from a belief on many men's part that there's some point where women give up the right to their bodies, be it through drunkeness or slutty dress or being in the frat house after midnight. I don't care for the way some women dress, especially young girls, but I view that as a separate issue from the problem of some men believing that women should lose the right to their own bodies if they don't follow certain 'rules', rules that apparently vary from male mind to male mind. If a guy truly isn't sure whether he's being invited to bed, all he has to do is ask.