They have not missed out on anything in live that is worthwhile.
I guess it's all in having the proper values!
My wife and I were married in the mid-70s. The wedding cost around $150, and most of that was for a dinner-reception for the immediate family only. Her uncle was the minster and we used his church. The ceremony took about 15 minutes. My uncle was the photographer. She had a friend make her wedding dress at low cost. I wore a sport jacket and slacks.
30 years, 7 kids, and 5 grandkids later it's still going strong.
Thats about what mine cost including the license fee.
Fortunately neither set of parents were close enough to influence the wedding.