I'm a woman who has been attracted lately to "bad boys."
It isn't so much that they are a turn-on, but that a couple of the "nice guys" I've gone with turned out to be smarmy pretending sociopaths who hadn't a sincere word or facial expression in their repertoire. Everything nice they said or did was about manipulation, and when they did eventually let down their masks (after a few drinks, or when circumstances didn't go their way, such as a clueless person taking too much time while using the ATM ahead of him) I saw such selfish, profane, ugly, dangerous, hatefilled EVIL that I was paralyzed with shock. I do not trust my own judgement to know what is really nice and what is just a sick act.
You get what you see with a mildly bad boy - no pretense, no hidden emotional or mental rot, no calculated manipulation.
My advice: Be yourself. Don't be a stranger to the guy in the mirror just so you can play games. YOU will always lose, even if the guy you are pretending to be gets laid once or twice.
I'd suggest you avoid the ones from Miami, even if they did get a song written about them.
Bad boys, bad boys. Whatcha gonna do? Whatcha gonna do when they come for you????'
Whew! Was just lookin' for ya when I found this!
Anyway, you have FReepmail!
(btw, I'm one of the good guys)