Yes! Thank you! Lord, I HATE this cliche. What a cow muffin. I'm sure there are some damaged (and usually very young) women out there who like grief and trouble, but adult women want adult men -- and being an adult does not mean being a "bad boy."
It's just the truth. 'Bab boy' traits are attractive in the respect that they are just exaggerated masculine traits. Sincere women who enter relationships with them are bound to be hurt.
An emotionally mature woman will chose a masculine, good guy over the jerk or the sexless 'nice guy' any day of the week.
We all get what we deserve.