Hahaha - the grand entrance was my idea, yes, but no vegas showgirl headdress! :-)
And anyway, isn't it funny how this topic comes up about 2x a month, and somebody consistently brings up the 'aw shucks, all the women like the jerks and avoid the nice guys!' You can set your watch by it!
This is always fascinating to me, as you know - what might be more interesting is for us to try and figure out why and how that paradigm even came to exist and be so influential.
Amazing stuff!
I don't know about you, but I'm always amazed at the number of freeper men who are obviously struggling with lonliness. I haven't decided if political obsessions are a turn off, or that that socially awkward turn to politics in the absence of real relationships.