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Why VERY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women
bullz-eye.com ^ | 04/07/05 | by: David DeAngelo, Author of "Double Your Dating"

Posted on 04/10/2005 3:32:35 PM PDT by paltz

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To: Joe 6-pack

You oughta see my tracts of land.


301 posted on 04/12/2005 5:15:40 PM PDT by Xenalyte (It's a Zen thing, you know, like how many babies fit in a tire.)
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To: Concentrate
Most women want someone who is empathetic, yet who know when to drop it and take charge of the situation when necessary. Good looks and money also help a lot, the former more than the latter, though.

Totally untrue. I'm about as far from being attractive as a man can be, and I always did very well with women. I'm 5'1" tall, I lost my hair early, I'm rough and scarred, and just plain not pretty. It never hurt me at all. Looks won't get you very far with women.

302 posted on 04/12/2005 5:17:37 PM PDT by Melas
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To: exnavychick

It was a good relationship except I lived in So California and she lived in Las Vegas and neither one of us wanted to move.


303 posted on 04/12/2005 5:18:50 PM PDT by John Lenin (You have to be a loser to keep on losing in new ways)
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To: HitmanNY

We need a ping list or something.


304 posted on 04/12/2005 5:21:03 PM PDT by Melas
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To: marsh2

I would agree with your assumption if she spoke no English. However, if she spoke, English, it could have just been one of those things where the guy met and fell in love with a Russian woman in America.


305 posted on 04/12/2005 5:23:10 PM PDT by Melas
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To: SamAdams76
I think a lack of social skills can actually work in a man's favor. Men who are "babe magnets" get all the floozies, gold-diggers and other undesirables clinging onto them. Men who are more shy and more socially awkward may not get the hot dates but that built-in filter eventually works in their favor, as they usually end up with a decent woman.

Sam with all due respect, that's the most blatant attempt at rationalizing the situation I've ever witnessed. The reader would never guess from the above paragraph that you consider yourself shy and socially awkard, and not one of the babe magnets. I don't know if I was ever a babe magnet, but gettings dates and/or sex was never a challenge, and I wound up with a decent woman who I've been married to for almost 14 years now.

306 posted on 04/12/2005 5:28:22 PM PDT by Melas
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To: Melas

I think we are basically of like mind, though the position doesn't lend itself to a meaningful sound-bite! ;-)

As for the ping list, what would you call it? 'Losers in Love?' I like that! ;-)


307 posted on 04/12/2005 5:29:12 PM PDT by HitmanLV
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To: Cyclops08
CONCLUSION: Smart men are confident men. I've never known a smart man who had trouble with women.

Pay more attention to some threads here on Freep then. There are plenty of obviously very smart freeper men who're chronically lonely and unable to attract women. Many of them are very up front about it.

308 posted on 04/12/2005 5:33:56 PM PDT by Melas
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To: chris1
How come you never see any articles about what women should do to make men happy.

Because, "Have sex with him." is way too short to flesh out an article, and that's really all a woman has to do to make a man happy. Plus, women know beyond a shadow of a doubt that's all they need to do to make a man happy.

309 posted on 04/12/2005 5:37:54 PM PDT by Melas
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To: chris1

Meet more people. Most of the guys I know aren't suffering nearly so much in their marriages. In my experience, it's the single guys who're hurting these days, not the married ones.


310 posted on 04/12/2005 5:41:00 PM PDT by Melas
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To: paltz

Ah! Finally I've got an explaination for all my problems with women.


311 posted on 04/12/2005 5:41:53 PM PDT by reg45
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To: John Lenin

Aw, what a bummer! :(


312 posted on 04/12/2005 5:42:10 PM PDT by exnavychick (There's too much youth; how about a fountain of smart?)
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To: Final Authority

I never had any of those things, and I never had any difficulty. I even pretty much live the American Dating Dream, I married a 6' blonde.


313 posted on 04/12/2005 5:42:14 PM PDT by Melas
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To: Rca2000
BUT-- I have some questions-- and I think other men have them too, but are afraid to ask, for fear of retaliation from other Freepers. Since I ALWAYS get flamed, at nearly every post, I am getting used to it now.

The behaviors you listed are not peculiar to women in general. They are peculiar to victim-feminists.

Deal with them as you would with poisonous snakes: Learn to recognize them and stay clear of them.

314 posted on 04/12/2005 5:42:28 PM PDT by Polybius
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To: chris1

In my 41 years, I've never actually had a woman talk to me about shopping, unless it was asking me to do it.


315 posted on 04/12/2005 5:43:36 PM PDT by Melas
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To: HamiltonJay
Only if they are single or recently dating... A guy whos been with the said woman yacking about her day, is earning brownie points toward being able to spend the weekend Riding his Harley while the little woman stays home with the kids.

I don't know about you, but I enjoy my Harley a lot more when she's on the pillion. I definately enjoy the layovers more.

316 posted on 04/12/2005 5:45:46 PM PDT by Melas
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To: LisaMalia
You're not so bad yourself!

Oh by the way, there is no better football than the annual game between Ohio State and Michigan.

Go Blue!

317 posted on 04/12/2005 5:46:32 PM PDT by reg45
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To: Rca2000

One word: Ask. From previous converstations, I have the feeling you're looking for a woman who's only going to be found in the museum of ancient history, so you're going to have difficulty.


318 posted on 04/12/2005 5:47:19 PM PDT by Melas
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To: HitmanNY

It seems so simple to me. The easiest way to pick up women in my experience was to simply let her know in no uncertain terms that I found her sexually stimulating.


319 posted on 04/12/2005 5:53:01 PM PDT by Melas
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To: HitmanNY

If you're going to use "in love" you have preface it with young. It's the law. Young Losers in Love.


320 posted on 04/12/2005 5:54:27 PM PDT by Melas
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