[oceanview]

not in any major metropolitan or suburban area - either they have some other source of income or money, or are living in a rural area.

[halieus]

not in any major metropolitan or suburban area - either they have some other source of income or money, or are living in a rural area.

That's not correct. We're all in major metropolitan areas. Chicago, San Francisco, Detroit, Dallas, Austin. We all think it's vitally important for the wife to be a keeper at home, we all tithe at least 10% of our gross income, and we all make sacrifices where need be. And we all live very comfortable lives.

Ever heard of the two-income trap? Once you pay for daycare, commuting expenses, convenience foods and dinners out, a work wardrobe, etc... you're not making as much money as you think. Add to that the stress of both parents working, and you're trading quality of life for a plasma screen.