I don't think George & laura Bush, a long time married couple with more than a quarter century of history together, really compare to Laura Ingram and her soon-to-wed. I wish it did, but I really don't follow your logic. George & Laura didn't marry in the East Room.
It isn't like she is 22 and is marrying a 25-year old.
Bext wishes, Laura, and congratulations to your fiance!