Have you even heard if the Schindlers ~want~ to come to Michael's side's service? This article proposes a red herring that we don't even know is relevant. The Schindlers would be masochists to even desire to be there. They will find the best comfort at the Catholic Mass by their own priest.
It's not the article that "proposes a red herring", it's his brother Scott who is making it clear that not only will they not be allowed at the service, but also not allowed to know where her ashes are buried.
But keep spinning a way to make him look good. It's enlightening.