Yes, I did hear that her parents 'sold' the list of folks who donated to their cause, but please remember how expensive lawyers are, and this family has had to fight in the courts for her rights for years. Very, very costly. If they're like most of us, they couldn't have done this on their own.
I heard a statement that was read by one of the cable news hosts where the webmaster of that site was quoted as saying the Schindlers knew nothing about those details of the hosting agreement .. sad, but it seems believable to me in their grief and the frenzy of all they've been doing to save Terri in these last years. I swear, but for the Grace of God, I don't know how they've survived this torment and the years of hope and despair.