Lando
That sentiment is sometimes mutual. But forgive me for waxing philosophical for a moment. I'm really finding this rather cathartic.
Think of a gritty, grimy city in the summertime that hasn't had rain in a few weeks. It looks and feels nasty, right? Then, a brief thunderstorm comes through. That rain cleans everything up for a bit, then we see things as they are.
What I'm saying is that I'm not one who will live under an illusion. Honesty cleans things up. This thread and many Terri Schiavo/Schindler threads were the thunderstorms, now we can see more clearly.