Luckily for those want a tradional style family, its easy to get under our current system. You just have to be willing to use the system to your advantage instead of fighting it.
I was discouraged a time ago, until I read what the muslims were doing in Europe. Now I'm copying it lol..
They will get a muslim wife, and get her training to be say a nurse. When she finishes she will work the minimum time before she can go on pregnancy/maternity leave. In west Europe you get 2 years paid maternity leave.
For the next 20 years, the woman will continually get pregnant and having children. All the while she stays on paid maternity leave.
The next step some who want a lot of children do is this. If its a profession without good maternity leave, they will not officially get married. Instead the wife will happen to live in the same apartment as her actual husband, but not legally a husband.
Then the woman can go on welfare, and get all the bonuses for each child. Which is tens of thousands of dollars a year in many states.
Its all about thinking through things logically.. any system can be defeated by using the system itself.