She's got it right.
And my mom was saying that just having her music would make a world of difference to her because the music she likes is such a part of her. Terri's husband denied her music too. Terri would have wanted it that way. He sucks. I was just saying to my bf on the drive home from Easter dinner, if something happens to me and there is a court battle, please, make sure I am as uncomfortable as possible while you are sorting it out. I mean nothing, no music, no sun, no cold wash cloths to keep my fingers from curling, no pudding, no animals, no air...for God's sakes those bastards will rue the day they tried to keep me alive against my will. Also, don't waste a second, please get involved with another woman ASAP! (Luckily, my bf doesn't really listen to me. :)