"I have unkind words.
We have been betrayed.
This is murder."
I agree completely.
Try asking the enablers, "If this isn't murder, then what is it?", and their tortured, stammering, excuse-laden responses will make you even sicker.
The severe restraints that finally permitted communion to be served to the poor woman are evidence that someone has ordered that she not be allowed even to try to eat and drink naturally.
To deprive a person of a food tube is one thing; to deprive them of even the possibility of a natural death is murder.