Terri's family has more grace, compassion, and understanding than many of the people purporting to speak for them. Ironically if they blasted the Prez or Gov. I'd understand, since in grief that is natural. The others here not intimately connected to terri have no excuse for their condemnation. They do so because they childishly cannot accept sometimes bad things happen, and they foolishly want to destroy those that stand for the Culture of Life in their need for a scapegoat.
Bobby Schindler criticized those who were complaining about the Bushes' geting INVOLVED in the legal fight to save Terri. He did not criticize those who criticized the Bushes for failing to act to save Terri. In fact, the whole family has condemned Jeb Bush for failing to send in troopers or soldiers to save Terri.
Incidentally, the "Culture of Life" is an abstraction. It's easy to support abstractions. It takes more courage to act to rescue a flesh-and-blood woman who is being murdered. Neither of the Bushes had that kind of courage.