Strangers would think the same of my husband then I guess. He does the checkbook and I clear every purchase through him. He's 6'4" and can be perceived as intimidating as well.
I think only MS and TS really truly know.
there is a big difference in PRECEIVED AS and BEING AS.
The nurses said how he would intimidate the nurses - either his rules be followed - or else.
Or else happened - I believe 2 were fired.
You think ONLY MS and TS know?
Tell that to her sister who was forced to keep a bat under her pillow after an altercation w/MS. Tell that to her brother when MS grabbed him by the throat w/one hand and was ready to strick him w/his other - until Mr. Schindler got between them. Tell that to her family, friends - THEY know. BUT their evidence meant nothing.
So your statement "ONLY" MS and TS knew is pie in the sky.
There is a difference between a couple choosing to agree on how to do things in their marriage and a couple where one is "in control".