well i myself am not too comfortable with what is going on either for my sake since I just had a 65th birthday and hubby is 68..We both got dissability about 10 years ago for severe back problems...I am sure now I am in the database to not give too much care to
Just make GOOD and sure that you and your husband have a good living will. I just had mine done, and now looking at it, I want to rephrase it again. And make sure people you can really TRUST are down as your potential caregivers.
I added a small addendum to my will, asking that if I'm ever in a coma that someone read to me or play my favorite Gene Kelly films, at least once a week. I know that may sound silly, but I have heard so many people who came out of comas say they were awake and aware, but couldn't communicate.